讲故事与叙事2015medium.com
在硅谷，关于失败的故事是一种社交货币
In Silicon Valley, stories about failure are a form of social currency
导读
这篇文章剖析硅谷把"失败故事"当作社交货币的现象：所谓 fumblebrag（凡尔赛式示弱）往往把微小挫折包装成失败，并把责任推给别人，从而维持"我一直在成功"的人设。对写作者的价值在于：它提醒我们，叙事中的"失败"一旦失去真实代价和自我审视，就会变成廉价的自我营销。
可以直接用的写作要点
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把几个小磕绊称作"失败"会稀释词义，动笔前先问：这个故事真的付出过代价吗？
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让失败故事承担真实后果和自身责任，甩锅他人会让读者立刻嗅到自我包装的味道。
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越是具体承认损失（积蓄、关系、健康），叙事越可信，也越有说服力。
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先想清读者所处的文化语境：他们对失败的默认态度，决定你该强调"教训"还是"代价"。
HN 评论精选
失败文化并非普世价值，在"失败即终结"的环境里，把失败理解为人生教训本身也是一种叙事立场。
撇开那些假失败不谈，我并不太喜欢这篇文章。你知道没有失败文化会得到什么吗？意大利。在我的祖国，一旦你搞砸了就完了，人们会嘲笑你追求更多的"不切实际"，每个人都必须降到最低的共同标准。意大利人不把失败当作一个短期结果，而是当作关于生活本身的教训。
Red_Tarsius查看英文原文
Fake failures aside, I didn't really appreciate the article. Do you know what you get without failure culture? Italy. In my home country, if you fuck up it's over. People will laugh at your totally unrealistic attempt to strive for more. Everyone must fall to the lowest denominator. Italians don't see failure as a short-term result, but as a lesson about life itself.
真正的失败叙事因为代价巨大而稀缺，"失败"一词被滥用造成词义通胀。
我在硅谷从没听过真正的失败故事。真正的失败应该是："我把一辈子的积蓄投进这家公司，结果它炸了。现在我没有收入，妻子带着孩子离开了我，人生不值得过下去，我每周看三次心理医生才不至于崩溃。"那才叫失败，有真实的后果，很难走出来，而走出来的人通常有宝贵的教训可以分享。这样的人几乎从不发声。我们看到的反而是大量假失败——在通往成功的路上遇到几个小磕绊。现在"失败"被用得就像"很棒""不可思议"这些顶级词被用在极其平庸的小事上，毫无必要地贬低了我们的语言。
littletimmy查看英文原文
I've actually never heard a true failure story in silicon valley. Something like... "I started this company with my entire life's worth of savings, but it blew up. So now I have no income and my wife left me along with the kids. My life isn't worth living anymore and I am seeing a therapist thrice a week to stop blowing my brains out." THAT would be failure. That's real, with real consequences. That is hard to get out of, and when someone does that person usually has a valuable lesson to share. I have no doubt there are some failures like that out there, but they almost never share their story. What we have instead is a plethora of fake failures who experienced a few hiccups on their path to success. The current way the word failure is used is like "awesome" or "incredible" or any of these other top-shelf words used for rather mundane occurances. It cheapens our language for no reason.
失败故事常暗含甩锅与自我美化，把责任外包给他人反而暴露了虚荣。
文章一开头就点出了 fumblebrag 的关键要素：到头来永远是别人的错，永远是别的某个失败者把事情搞砸了；你唯一的缺点是没及时看清那个人是个会拖累你的失败者。但现在你更聪明了，这种事不会再发生，你不会再那么粗心地"开放权限"——因为你真的很重要，而你现在懂得这份重要性了。
polynomial查看英文原文
Article starts off with a key element of the #fumblebrag: It was always ultimately someone else's fault. It was always some other loser that effed up. Your only flaw was not seeing in time what a loser that other guy was who caused you to fail. But now you're wiser, so that won't happen again. You won't "allow access" so carelessly. Because you're really important. And now you know the importance of that.
问题不在失败文化本身，而在于"永远在成功"的人设与失败叙事之间的张力。
我们拥有接纳失败的文化，这是好事。fumblebrag 其实来自文化的另一面：一种彻头彻尾的混蛋文化——假装你永远在"大杀四方"、营造成功的表象、把自己看得太了不起。这种张力存在于我在 HN 上读到的一切内容里。
normloman查看英文原文
It's good we have a culture of accepting failure. The fumblebrag comes from a different aspect of the culture: The culture of being a complete douchebag, pretending you're always "crushing it," creating the appearance of success, and taking yourself way too seriously. This tension is present in everything I read on HN.
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